I am a Christ-follower, wife, mom, speaker and writer.
I grew up in Houston,TX in the 80’s and have the pictures of spiral perms to prove it. After graduating from Bellaire High School I attended Baylor University where I got a Bachelor of Science Degree in Education.
After Baylor, I attended Southwestern Seminary in Ft. Worth where I got reacquainted with a handsome dark-haired guy from Tyler, John Henson. Seven years earlier when my youth group performed our summer choir tour, FBC Tyler was one of our stops. He kept telling me how familiar I looked. I graduated with a Masters of Communication Degree in 1995 a year after marrying the Tyler guy and we have been married for more than 20 years. In a row.
I have been blessed to travel the country performing stand-up for 20 years now.
I always envisioned that my greatest contribution to the world would be my children: Maggie Lee and Jack. I worked with that end in mind. My world was upended in 2009 when our oldest died as a result of a traumatic brain injury she suffered when ejected from and pinned under the First Baptist Church of Shreveport Bus.
So with a son left to raise who deserved a happy childhood and a very faithful and brave husband by my side, we sought to as Jerry Sitser says in his book A Grace Disguised to view the loss of our daughter as a bad chapter in a really good book.
Part of that has been the phenomenal idea to do a good deed on Maggie Lee’s birthday which came from a complete stranger from Texarkana, Kelli Alamond. Since October 29, 2009, Maggie Lee for Good Day has evolved into a world-wide grass-roots movement of kindness which completely amazes us. Thousands have donated to non- profits, packed a box for Operation Christmas Child, held food drives and quietly done a good deed in our child’s memory.
John and I wrote Maggie Lee for Good to share with the world our tragedy but more so than that, the amazing triumph which God has brought out of a worst-case scenario. We wanted to encourage people in the midst of thier devastation that the rest of the story might look very different from the view they have right now. We also wanted to express our extreme gratitude to those who have taken part in MLfG since 2009.
Our story continues. We still love Jesus and each other. We are still a family even though we are not the same family we wish we were. I firmly believe that you are not responsible for what enters your life but that you are very responsible for how you deal with it. I wondered initially how grieving and comedy would even begin to work together. I still wonder but I do know that I am blessed to laugh every day and that the miracle of healing is quite an unexpected bonus.
While I’m on beliefs, I believe firmly in laughter being God’s Zoloft and as Anne Lamott says, “carbonated holiness.” I believe that I will never be able to accomplish an iota of what my daughter in her vibrant spirit would have yet am obligated to try.
We still make our home in Shreveport, Louisiana and feel very called to this place. We began Church for The Highlands four years ago to serve the least of these. We are the chief ragamuffins, struggling to serve Jesus in all those we meet. It is a beautiful, diverse and messy place of ministry where our lives connect and where God’s healing happens. We are so happy to serve here.
I thank you for taking a moment to read about me. I do pray that my words help you to laugh, cry and think.