With the kids in bed, the cards long-since opened and the spoiling replaced by laundry hurriedly done before tomorrow when we hop on the hamster wheel and do it all again, I wanted to write you a note.
I saw you in Jackson, Mississippi at The Batson children’s Hospital ICU with your 8-year old granddaughter who looked four because she was so contracted. You worked full-time and came to stay with her at night to relieve your daughter.
I caught you at Target putting back those flip-flops because there were already too many things your kids needed in the cart and you figured you could get them next time.
I noticed your sweetness as you took the time to welcome the new child in class and made sure he had a friend to sit with at lunch.
I witnessed your long journey from The Brookshire’s parking lot because your toddler wanted to walk and you took the time to let her do so.
I marveled at the way your teenager gave you a knowing glance and you both erupted in laughter even though you wanted to throttle each other.
I know that there is nothing you would not do for your child. And that is your gift this Mother’s Day- the satisfaction that you’ve done the most important job ever extremely well.
I know. I’ve seen you.
So sweet! And so insightful!
Thank you, Liz.
I’ve seen you taking care of Maggie Lee’s teachers and friends as we still grieve for her and love you, John & Jack. Thank you, Jinny, for showing us how to stay in this world and take steps forward when all we want to do is disappear. I love you, too. You’ve Mothered us so unselfishly and shared your deepest feelings. God bless and keep you, sweet girl.
Betty-
You are too kind.
Love you,
Jin
Sorry to like my own post….thought I was approving a comment….
You never cease to amaze me. God (with MAYBE a little help from your dad – HA) gave you a wonderful “way with words!” That you have managed to use them these past 20+ months to comfort the rest of us is unbelievable. Your precious daughter will live in our hearts forever because of your incredible willingness to share.